When one habitually goes against one's heart of admiration to destroy
it and is left directionless, chasing after any least effulgence of
praise, like an addict. And the defense of this behavior is to tout
onesself a social animal simply alive and responsive to that
imperative. The social being and the ideal lover needn't compete to
annihilate; in the most complete person they combine.
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